Monday, September 13, 2021

We Are All Travelers


Fall 2020

In this moment, I am seated at my desk in my office at Healing Winds. I can hear the sounds of life and work happening around me.

Misael, our newly hired draftsman, soon to be graduate specializing in Eco Architecture is working on a project presentation for one of our clients. I have known him since before he was born; his mother is a dear and longtime friend.

I can hear Javier next door talking with Carmen as they analyze costs for a construction bid we are preparing to present for a house I designed this summer.

Kim, our Acupuncturist is in her office every day working with patients. We are blessed to have her 36 years of experience and thriving practice at Healing Winds.

After sadly closing the studio last spring to comply with safety precautions and social distancing, it occurred to me: with everyone at home, there was a very good chance folks might begin viewing the art of dwelling indoors and outdoors with potentially a fresh set of eyes. Our homes and working spaces are an outer reflection of an inner evolving imagination and unfolding lifestyle.

Before re-opening our multidisciplinary fitness studio, mid-September, the space was professionally sanitized. In addition to researching COVID-19 safety Protocol with Yoga Alliance, checking in with resources in Mexico, the US and Canada, we (Carmen, Juan Jose – Sabomnim Black Belt 1st dan Taekwondo – and I) took courses provided by IMSS to become certified in safely reopening the studio for classes with students.

In person Yoga & Meditation classes are offered in Spanish and English. Deborah offers online Yin Yoga for those who preferring to practice at home. Taekwondo is offered three evenings a week. With the Drop-In culture being a thing of the past, we re-opened our classes to students who pre-register for class and comply with a list of safety guidelines in order to attend.

After having the studio closed during the first summer in five years for safety reasons – we are a year round facility – reopening and gathering with students and friends to breathe, meditate and move together is enlivening, soul nourishing and more special than ever.

With lockdown re-occurring in Ireland and France (and maybe other areas as I write), I am reminded to voice my perspective: every time we gather, we don’t know if it will be our last for any amount of time. The latter is true, pandemic or not.

Reminders of impermanence and new ways of being are everywhere.

At a time in our lives when I imagined our kids, Dylan and Paloma, would be more independent, my husband and I are their main in person social life.

For example, on Halloween this year, Paloma asked us to dress up, knowing we would be staying home. We didn't talk about our costume ideas. Three of us showed up for dinner dressed as travelers, adventurers of some kind. What a delightful surprise!



Paloma was Milo Thatch from Atlantis: The Lost Empire, an adventuring linguist obsessed with the history of the underground city; Dylan was the castaway from a pirate ship. The stuffed parrot on his shoulder was a hoot! I embodied the gypsy. Javier put on a mask that matched his Day of a Dead T-shirt he smiled proudly to be wearing.

For the past 7+ months, I feel like the four of us have been traveling on a long adventure, reminiscent of the shorter and more distant travels in the world we've embarked upon as a family.

We are all travelers, adventurers of all kinds. Whether we leave our homes or not.

That particular weekend marked the celebration of Halloween; Samhain: The Celtic New Year; Dia de Los Angeles and Dia de Muertos. Traditions from both sides of the border and across the Atlantic Ocean.  I also enjoyed the Online offering of a Celtic Soul Immersion with Sean from New Orleans and Mary in Ireland. What a joy to see friends and teachers on screen, to hear their voices and invite their energy into our home. The internet provides a unique opportunity to travel when in person presence is otherwise challenged.

Our family traveled to Ireland four years ago to honor the threshold of Dylan's High School graduation while I attended a Celtic Spirituality retreat. The following year, Paloma and I returned for a rite of passage with Mary to honor the threshold of her teenage years. Paloma and I were with Sean and friends in NOLA the year before last and had a blast! We were ready to return this March when lockdown was set in place and our trip was canceled.

Seasonally, this time of year and the weeks leading up to the Winter Solstice offer a time of introspection, reflection; an opportunity to release that which no longer serves us, is in alignment with our purpose or may be holding us back from being fully present in our lives. We are continually invited to open our hearts and minds to the dreams, goals, the life we are living and journey we are on individually and collectively.

During that online immersion, Mary reminded us of the way time is viewed in the Celtic Tradition: honoring the circular nature of time and cycles of the seasons. Minute to minute, day by day. In Mexico, we often say or hear of doing things ‘poco a poco’ (little by little).

There is great wisdom in moving at a slower pace, an opportunity to see and be with the beauty and mystery before and within us; the reality of there being no place else to be, but right here, right now, with the richness of being fully human and alive to all the gifts and challenges that life offers us on this ongoing adventure.

In the words of Lao Tzu, "“A good traveler has no fixed plans, and is not intent on arriving.”

Sending love and blessings to you and yours.   May you be healthy, safe and live with ease.

Tehroma

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